Changes I need (Help/suggestions from you)

By Nitish Mehta on July 25, 2013 9 Comments / 1557 views

Hello Everyone ,

It’s been one year since i have started my business , relatively i have progressed quite good , But if i look at the ability of mine and my team + the infrastructure, i believe that i am not able to progress as i should have . So after some thought, I came up with some reasons which are as follows

Time and task management and prioritization (most imp i think )

Scheduling myself

Being lazy

Getting caught up in less important stuffs

Trying to be nice too much sometime.

Trying to make everyone happy , i fear of losing work

If you can suggest me some quick fix for them, i will be very glad, i know all this points are because lifestyle i have lived till now and i want to get out of it and be more responsible. I know that the habits can’t be change in a day, but there should a day when they are incepted to.I believe that i have to change all this if i want to be more successful in life so asking you guys what you do, you must have faced this problems

I will be very glad to change myself and remove this bad traits of mine.

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Nitish Mehta

9 Comments

asha chaudhry July 26, 2013, 5:23 am

i’m very interested to know if there are any “quick fixes” to anything in life…

nitish – you’re the geek – you should be able to schedule yourself with a google calendar!!!

let’s hear what the others have to say…
Saraswathi Pulluru July 26, 2013, 6:38 am

Hi Nitish,

Acknowledgement is the first step. I am a strong believer that, no matter how many advises we get – we change only when we have the urge to change from within. From the points you mentioned, all of them are interconnected and must have some significance with you deep within. As Asha said, there are no quick fixes… If I may give my 2 cents, try meditating. From my personal experience, it will give you answers to all questions – asked and unasked. However, it is the longest path to fix things too 🙂
Nitish Mehta July 26, 2013, 1:27 pm

From Quick fix i mean something which we don’t have to do high efforts , I believe there is always a simple solution to a complex problem .!
Nitish Mehta July 26, 2013, 1:29 pm

Thank you for your suggestion and ya i too believe that ack. is first step and i guess i have , already founded few solutions and started experimenting with them too , Meditation is something i have never done ..! well there is no harm in trying though.
asha chaudhry July 26, 2013, 1:31 pm

pls read this nitish…

https://www.therodinhoods.com/forum/topics/the-10-reasons-you-should-meditate-if-you-want-to-succeed-as-an-e
Nitish Mehta July 26, 2013, 1:42 pm

thank u …!!! asha ji ..! this is wonderful , heart touching ..!!
Praveen Kumar July 27, 2013, 4:54 pm

Nitish, Me too facing some of the problems you stated 🙂 I think we need to take some rest between business but yet, much of rest leads to disaster 😛
Alok Rodinhood Kejriwal July 28, 2013, 7:32 am

How can you have started a business and become lazy??

I get the rest of the other points, but LAZY in YOUR OWN BUSINESS?

You are not playing Monopoly the game right?!
Nitish Mehta July 29, 2013, 2:57 pm

Sir , I don’t mean that i spend all weekday or afternoon hour sitting in couch. I have not seen weekend since ages that i can assure you that . I just become lazy and ignore stuffs which are important for my personal growth. i.e i want to start prep for next year GATE , My mission is IIT , but not able to study for that because i become lazy as soon as i have arrived home after work.

I think all my problem leads to management of my time and life , which i want to solve

I am Not sure that am i able to explain you or not