I felt humiliated !

By Sugandha Dubey on August 12, 2011 11 Comments / 1914 views

I had a meeting yesterday, where I felt humiliated. I walked out of the meeting !

As an entrepreneur, sometimes we take it as we are raw and do not know at times if it is wise to react immediately.

What would you do ?

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Sugandha Dubey

11 Comments

Alok Rodinhood Kejriwal August 13, 2011, 7:56 am

Sugandha – PLEASE PLEASE read this:

https://www.therodinhoods.com/forum/topics/why-mothers-day-is-so-precious

then tell me what u think
Jack John August 16, 2011, 6:13 pm

If you truly believe your ideas, Just Flare up more Just don’t mind what people say just keep on trying hard may be your luck is on the next door My personal experience have went through it but made it possible in the end DO not Loose hope,If you feel you idea is worth may be the front person is not understand the value of the idea
Aditya Singh August 17, 2011, 2:01 am

Ya happened with me multiple times.

I would wait for the day my plans are successful and then that would be the sweetest revenge. 😀
Dev August 18, 2011, 11:46 am

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Pranay Jain August 19, 2011, 1:16 pm

As an entrepreneur, we are always bound to have people throwing hard balls at us. Its really not wise to walk out or react immediately.

We should be patient and try to think what the other person has to say. Reacting immediately and walking out never helps.

Anyways, let me know if I can help.
amiteshanand August 19, 2011, 1:45 pm

Was “Walkout” an outcome that you planned for? In my case, I would want to make the best of opportunity and will try to achieve outcome which I wanted – at least closer to my planned outcome; feeling Humiliated : I would want to just smile .. .. and move forward in Life 🙂
Rabi Gupta August 19, 2011, 2:26 pm

As time goes by we start understanding that those who humiliate us (or at least try to) are not worth our time! Your confidence would grow and you start meeting people who will value both your and their own time. Entrepreneurs should be arrogant enough to value their own time. By walking out you did exactly the same 🙂
Rajs August 19, 2011, 5:23 pm

I would definitely feel really bad – but I probably may not have walked out. Would usually prefer to focus on the outcome I wanted to acheive from that meeting than get diverted. These are also situations which would help me go back to basics and ponder on why I am doing what I am doing as an entrepreneur.
kanchan.kumar August 20, 2011, 2:26 am

React is NEVER right. Response is what one needs to give.

What’s the difference – React means blurting out (or acting out) the thought without applying intellect. Response on the other hand allows the thought to filter through intellect before your say/act.

As an entrepreneur, we are doing what others may not understand completely anyway, and that leads to their REACTion. What we need is patience and smile.
Sugandha Dubey August 24, 2011, 3:17 pm

Thank you Alok, Yatin, Jack John, Aditya Singh,Dev,Neil Bahal,Pranay Jain,amiteshanand,Rabi Gupta,Rajs,kanchan.kumar

Thank you for sparing time and responding.

I have soaked in all that you have said but agree with Rabi the most.

@ Alok… this cookie won’t crumble so easily 🙂 I will use this time to strengthen myself mentally !
Pranay Jain August 24, 2011, 5:31 pm

Well Sugandha, as I have learnt with experience you only get wiser and stronger !

Wish you the very best of life and health ahead !!

Need any help please do not hesitate to ask !